How to Impress Yourself…
What is your notion of self-worth based on?
Far too often, people live in the realm of ‘waiting to be chosen’… and then wonder why they never feel good enough. When you’re looking for love in all the wrong places, it’s pretty clear why you keep not finding it.
And, at one point or another, we’ve all done it- hoping to feel seen, heard, and valued by others, wanting to feel a certain way because of the way others feel about us.
But, after a while, seeking external validation as a way of bypassing the need to trust your own internal knowing gets old… and all avenues still lead back to one important truth:
The only path to self-acceptance and self-love is you…
So now the question becomes “How do I love myself? How do I approve of myself? How do I accept myself? How do I do all of that for me without needing it from them?”
And, while it may feel really different, the things you do to win the approval of others are the same things you need to do to earn the approval of yourself: you need to impress yourself.