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Are You Changing Your Life… or Tolerating it?

Kassandra Vaughn
3 min readMar 1, 2024

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What version of your life are you currently living? Are you in the ‘Before’, the ‘Messy Middle’, or the ‘After’?

And if you’ve spent years in the ‘Messy Middle’, here’s a more important question:

What’s keeping you in a version of your life that you don’t want to be in?

And we all should ask ourselves the above questions on a weekly basis. It’s so easy to find ourselves living a Groundhog Day for years. It happens unconsciously but the impact of staying there is felt dramatically when way too much time has been spent in a season you could’ve left a long time ago.

And I get it… We’re afraid to ask the question “Am I changing the things I don’t want… or am I tolerating them? Am I actively participating in my own transformation… or am I only talking about it? Am I accepting my life as it is, not because I don’t want a different life but because I’m scared that I don’t have what it takes to create it?”

Those questions are scary… and necessary… and here’s why:

You can’t change any situation you aren’t willing to confront.

So it’s time to confront where you are in your life.

Pull out a journal and…

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Kassandra Vaughn
Kassandra Vaughn

Written by Kassandra Vaughn

I help people develop resilience, cultivate grit and get consistent with taking DMA (Daily Massive Action). Start here. https://tinyurl.com/mactiong

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